Are you facing difficulties in keeping friends? or May be no one cares about you or feeling constantly ignored by them ??
Here are 5 reasons as to why are you facing this :
1) You have a hard time picking social cues :
Is the person you’re talking to getting bored or may be this is the third time they’re looking at their watch? Did you even notice that your friend’s chatting on whatsapp while you just having this important conversation ! Not your fault if you this little talkative , chirpy little person but everyone’s not the same !!
2) You’re a selfish person.
Everyone in this world are selfish !! Nothing to be embarrassed off But try not to be selfish with your friends , family or loved once … They are the constant pillar of support .Try to be selfish with the world when it comes to fulfill your dreams.
3) You read between the lines.
And you read it way too much! You constantly assume the whole world is constantly revolving around you . So your friend shared a quote on facebook and you like Wait, does that have something to do with me? Was there a secret message addressed to some of my enemy in that way ? Is my friend trying to hit on my crush ? Stop! no never assume things like that .
4)You are a boring person.
You speak about things or have certain interests that just don’t interest the people you’re around. And you just don’t know to get over it . Just because something interests you doesn’t mean the whole world should be fascinated by it rather you never talk something or do something which irritates your friends …. in this world everyone has a weird fetish for something so if you find someone of the same fetish start hanging out with them .
5)You forget your friends when you don’t need them.
Do you really pay attention to your friends? Or do you just ignore your friends and their calls when you’re having fun with someone else? Do you avoid your friends when you start dating someone new or hanging out with bunch of so called “cool” people ?! That’s bad …. always maintain a balance between your various groups of friends !!
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