5 Reasons Troubled Relationships Should Not Be Taken To Facebook Or Twitter

Facebook and Twitter are two most popular social networking sites, a great way to keep in touch with people wherever they are in the world, find old friends, make new friends, share pictures and receive latest updates. Hence, the popularity of these sites are overpowering our lives, it is become more than just a need to socialize. Anything and everything is uploaded these days.  People spend most of their time updating something or the other online be it their latest pictures with friends or selfies or even pictures with their pets, their hangouts at places or a coffee date with someone, their likes and dislikes and also their lovey dovey relationship status and pictures. Some people even drag their relationship issues online. Should that be done?

Here are some reasons why one should not take their fights online;

1. Can be misused: Putting up status on Facebook or twitter about your relationship problems could be misused by someone for their own benefit if they are jealous of you or dislike you. At times someone else can take advantage of the situation, and fill your partner’s ears against you.
2. Increase problems: You may put up your problems with the hope of getting it solved through suggestions of people but mostly you not going to receive anything more than sympathy and people stupid comments. Instead of putting an end to your issues you will end up making it worse.
3. Can be judged: Judging someone is people favourite past time. You could be judged by people for being a couple who always fights or likes showing off to everyone about their issues in order to gain sympathy from people.
4. Affects their future: Negative things are never forgotten nor ignored. These bad reviews about you could affect your relationship with the person. As people always judge they may remember you as a couple who always fight in their relationship. By any chance you may not end up with the same person that it could affect your relationship with someone new.
5. There’s no Surety: Let’s be honest, nowadays we are not sure with whom we are about to spend our life, so putting up stuffs be it our joys or problems before people will give them thousand reasons to talk about you and your family. As there no surety of our life partner well in advance it can not only affect your status but also of your family.

It is rightly said “The best relationship is when it is not online”. Relationships are very sensitive and fragile and it should not be exposed before the world. Problems occur in every relationship, but one must know to tackle it by themselves without any other person’s interference.  People are simply known to make a mountain out of a mole hill, the moment you give others a chance to enter your personal life they will not even give a second thought before raising their fingers at you. So you need to decide what’s best for you, whether you want your relationship or people’s sympathy?