It is not necessary that every story has a happy ending some stories do have a sad ending. Similarly not all our relationships turn out to be a success though what might be the reason. It is just that something’s are not meant to be. There is no hard and fast rule that every relationship should turn into a marriage like…The prince and the princess met and they fell in love and they lives happily ever after….
This stuff look good in books and Movie but life is a reality there is quite a possibility your relationship doesn’t work out. So as you take the initiative to tell how you feel for the person when you start dating…the same way you should courageously go and even end up the relationship…unless you are not breaking up for a reason that shouldn’t have been the reason.
There are certain things you should not tell when you breakup just toe and up in a better note rather than a bitter or foolish note.
- Never say My ex boyfriend/girlfriend was better
With this you are not insulting him but making a fool out of yourself. If your ex was better why were you ever with him/her? So think before you talk
- Never say that God doesn’t want me to be in a relationship
God doesn’t tell you “No you are not worth it go and Breakup”. It was your choice so do not give silly reasons and excuses and at least don’t get god in between. Things are not working between you both is because of you both not anybody else.
- Don’t say sorry if you are not
If you want to breakup have the strength to do it. Rather than showing yourself innocent and saying sorry for namesake. If nothing be faithful to yourself.
- I want to concentrate on my studies or work
As said earlier have the guts to take up the responsibility of breaking up. Do not give Dum reason like I want to study.Where was the thought when you were actually having a merry time with him/her.
- Don’t say you are not the reason but it’s me.
If you know you are not interested in the person tell it straight…rather then pitying himself or yourself.
- I am not able to give you time
Another stupid reason, I am not able to give you time. He/she knows that and is okay with it, then why a breakup. Common be wise over you reasons don’t make a fool out of yourself.
So do not make fool out of yourself by giving silly reasons rather give sensible reasons if nothing but for your own self-image which I am sure you wouldn’t like to get hampered.
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