Is Being Judgemental Really A Bad Attitude ?

In Today’s World there are people who are from different races, cultures, Traditions and from totally different countries. There are people who believe in one thing and other people in another and vice versa. It is sometimes a bit difficult to cope up with other people’s lifestyle and their world. But since we go out, to face the world, to meet different people from different cultures, principles and personality, perhaps totally different from our personality. In such a situation being judgmental about a person is a bad thing?

Yes it is. Just think, we all are completely different from one another, you can never meet someone who is exactly like you. You can meet many with similar traits as you have but not perfectly like you. In such a case, you are bound to find differences.  That doesn’t define the other person is not good he is just different.

This attitude of judging a good person is challenging. It is impossible to judge a person without knowing the other person. Person might be coming from different situation and surroundings when you meet him. You never know what a person is going through. It is hard to understand a person that easily.

Personality of one person can be totally complex or simple. To know this, a person must understand the other completely. This will happen only if you give time to yourself to understand the other.

If you see the earth from a height, look down and see the water. It looks linear, subtle and calm. But the same thing you see from close, you will see that there are ripples, big waves, sometimes storms and cyclones on the same water body.

A person is exactly like that, difficult to judge unless you understand them.

Now the question is how to not Judge people?

Try to understand, Try to think, Know that you are not ALL KNOWING, Try to give it sometime, Understand the fact that no one is perfect, try to be more optimistic, Try to ignore the rumours and have your own stand and thinking.

The day you start seeing things more optimistically is day when you are much more above than the people with negatives. In this world, there are very few people who are optimistic but they are the only ones which are more valued by the world.

The way of thinking can be changed, Judgmental people have problems in their lives due to their attitude. Once this attitude is changed, you will definitely have more people following you and especially good people following you.

Changing an attitude is sometimes difficult, as it becomes our habit. But if the change is for good, it is definitely worth a try.

Friends try to be more optimistic and the world will be more optimistic about you. Always try to put yourself in others’ shoes to understand their difficulties and their lives.

SO GUYS BE POSITIVE AND BE OPTIMISTIC !!! 

SANIYA P. RANE