Self-defence must be inculcated in women. Women are strong but a little weak hearted. Men take women so lightly they do not understand the importance of women. They consider them delicate and dainty. Women are supposed to be delicate but today women are no longer so delicate. They may be their daddy’s darlings but aren’t that delicate. Women know a lot of stunts that probably men even do not know. One of the biggest examples of them is Mary kom the boxer. This boxer is an inspiration to women. People consider women weak. Mary kom isn’t weak but she can show the men who try to act smart what they are worth.
Women today are into a lot of Asian games and into a lot of politics as well. Self-defence is something that must be inculcated in women right from childhood. We teach our sons to fight but do we really teach our daughters how to defend themselves. The answer to this question is no. today we see a lot of crimes happening and people are actually troubling women. They still think women are weak. When a woman walks with short clothes and she is confident enough she will not give a damn. But when so many people especially the lusty eyes look at her she will definitely feel uncomfortable not because of her clothes but the way people look at her.
Women today roam on the streets of Mumbai carefree and without any worry as she knows she will be protected but what about Delhi. Delhi being the state capital a woman was brutally raped and murdered. How painful is it for us we all cannot see this injustice hearing about the sad news of this innocent girl who was raped badly and thrown naked to the streets made all the women ferocious and angry at the fact that how can people can just look at us as sex objects. People think of us worse than a tissue paper. This isn’t the way a lady should be treated. Self-defence should be taught to women.
Many women today feel that there is a man who will try to act funny with her and eve tease her or for a matter of fact even pass comments and touch her on private parts. Girl’s women and ladies must be aware of such men.
Women should learn self-defence. When a man comes close to you they should know what and how to behave. They should act scared or get to worried just being alert is the thing to do.
A FEW TIPS ON HOW CAN A WOMAN PROTECT HERSELF.
- Always carry a weapon for self-protection.
Women should always carry a weapon with them while travelling. Of course they cannot carry a gun or a knife but definitely you could carry a pepper spray. They are widely available in the market. The best thing to carry is a safety pin. It is small and can be hidden in any part of the corner. Many women travel by bus and men just love to feel a woman’s smooth and soft skin. He isn’t trying to feel you in a good way there is just an animal in his head that is already dreaming of doing some stunts with you. It is better to just stop it there and then and just poke that person with a safety pin so hard that he should fell the prick.
- Carry extra clothes or a stole.
Extra clothes are something a girl should carry especially late night. If not a top or a trouser you can always carry a stole just in case if some mishap has happened. In case if you carry a stole in a rickshaw and you realise the rickshaw guy taking you the wrong way you could attack him with a stole by chocking his neck. It won’t be called a murder it is a self-defence that is done.
- Be alert at all times
We girls keep texting our boyfriends and husbands or even friends. It is good to keep someone posted about the things that you do but it isn’t good to just not be aware of whatever is happening around. You never know who is keeping an eye on you and if he just comes and hits you on your private part you won’t even know about it. This is what actually happens there are some shameless men that know we are into our phones or into some other thought and just take the advantage and do a certain thing. At that time you go blank and you don’t really know what happened with you that’s when you realise you have to be alert.
- Keep your close ones updated.
Wherever you go even if it’s your boyfriend who you meet tell someone close about it. It is important for people to know. Don’t put it on Facebook and all. We often put up everything that we do on Facebook and people can easily track us. But this could bad as well you don’t know of any stalker stalking you and then might even land up reaching there and hurting you that why tell people but not the whole world through Facebook.
- Don’t be quiet raise your voice
When something happens with you any bad incident do not stay quiet in the fear of you being insulted. Raise your voice make a big issue out of it in public so that the person who has misbehaved with you will definitely bear the brunt of it and the public will beat him up. You don’t even need to raise your hands just raise your voice and you are good to go.
- Keep the ladies helpline number ready at all times.
- We all have a habit of clicking selfies if you can record what the person is doing. If you see a bad thing happening record it and post it on YouTube and show it to the cops as well.
By Carren bryne.
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