Foot – stomping and screaming your lungs out has become a part of every day? Want to get over these every day fights?
No one wants to have arguments with their parents, so it’s best to avoid arguments altogether. Sometimes it can be hard proving that you’re responsible and don’t need to be told what to do. Your parents may not understand that you’re growing up and changing. Let’s find out how to avoid arguments and form a healthy relationship with them:
Step 1
Teach your parents that you’re responsible in order avoid arguments. Let your parents know that you’re able to make wise choices when you’re out in the real world and your parents can’t supervise you. You can do this by getting home on time and doing your homework before you visit friends.
Step 2
Help out your parents around the house without them asking you for help. Doing something as simple as offering to help bring in groceries will most certainly brighten up your parents’ day and your relationship with your parents will most certainly improve.
Step 3
Stay calm and be respectful when you talk to your parents to avoid arguments. Never raise your voice or slam doors. The goal here is to avoid fighting. Instead, listen to what they have to tell you. If you don’t agree with what they have to say, talk about it with your parents. Don’t yell at your parents or give them harsh looks though. Doing so will dampen their mood and make the both of you even more upset to the point where you’re screaming at each other.
Step 4
Introduce the people you care about to your parents, including any boyfriends, girlfriends or friends. Your parents will then have a sense of who you talk to and spend your time with. Introducing them will also make your parents more at ease whenever you want to hang out with your friends, and your parents will be more likely to agree with you spending time with your friends as well.
Step 5
Avoid arguments with your parents by having patience with them. Though it can be frustrating when you can’t agree with your parents, try to think about it using their point of view. Sometimes you may doubt it, but your parents want the best for you. Treat your parents nicely and they’ll do the same for you.
Step 6
If you absolutely can’t avoid arguments with your parents no matter how hard you try, see a counselor. The counselor will help the both of you understand one another and prevent further outbursts.
– Misbaah Mansuri
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