With Valentine’s day around the corner the whole world is busy in planning and making preparations but if you keep asking yourself, “are my efforts actually worth it?” then it’s time to give your relationship a reality check. Love feels like magic initially and so do all relationships, but eventually the magic starts to fade and that is the actual time when you find out whether he or she is the right one for you. Fights, arguments and difference of opinions occur in every relationship and if you have started feeling bogged down by the burden of the relationship re-think it a bit.
Difference in choices, tastes, preferences and very common between any two individuals and being in love doesn’t impact that greatly. What matters is how well you can adjust and to what extent are you willing to adjust for your special person.Ask yourself whether you really want this relationship or not, if you do then remember that old habits don’t die soon and at times they don’t die at all. Don’t aim to change your man it’s so not happening try to reason with him instead. That applies to your girl as well, today girls can be as head strong and independent as guys, they don’t need you to pay for them they need you to want to spend time with them.
Try and patiently think about all the reasons why you are together in the first place, this will change a lot of the bitterness that has come up. Do the best thing possible ‘talk’ and talk out all the issues you feel existed.
But wait a second, what about those who have tried out all of this and it still didn’t work. Your super insecure boyfriend is as insecure as ever even after the insecure boyfriend test? (Take the test if you still haven’t: ) and your nagging girlfriend just doesn’t seem to let you live a content personal life (read more to find out how to deal with such girlfriends: ) then its time you figured out the reality to your relationship and called it quits this valentine season.
Valentine’s is the season of love, beautiful and magical in so many ways but if you constantly have to lose your individuality and self respect for someone who just won’t change then, this Valentine’s its time you cared for the one person who will stay with you forever ‘Yourself’ and got yourself out of the mess that hurts you day in and day out.
Don’t give up on love, it’s beautiful but learn to respect yourself the most and make this Valentine’s the happiest one you have ever had.
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