Pessimism, a cynical attitude towards life and a cartload of arrogance is exactly what repels me, and does so big time. I absolutely cant figure out why in the name of heaven cant people be practical if not optimistic towards life? Practical knowledge of people says that a smile and a few kind words ensure you a response that is in your favor 95% of the times, than a grim look and an angry demand.
If you cant possibly care about what people think and feel, at lest think about yourself if not the opposite person and your chances in getting a hassle free day along the way!
Pessimism deters the mind and a floodgate of negativity ensures you nothing but lack of concentration and acceptability of targets zooms down drastically. be it your personal relations, professional goals, career graph or academic achievements.
A sharp tongue backing up all those cranky gloomy thoughts is like a cherry to the cake and will ensure nothing but downfall in the long run. Its cool to be harsh and outspoken, say it in face and bloody mean what you say, but take a step back and think of all the repercussions; you are surely going to have a wiser choice of words in the future once you do that.
Life is meant to be lived happily and enjoyed. A smile for each day and problems can be kept at bay, but if you are stubborn and pigheaded enough not to realize that, then people will surely distance you away!
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