Yes baby, sorry baby, no baby, but listen to me.., jaanu, why are you angry? And the list is endless! Has this become a constant part of your day? Then it’s time to say good-bye to that Nagging girlfriend of yours. Love, romance and relationships all seem great for the first month but as time goes by the magic starts to fizzle off.
This is the time when you find out whether she was the right choice after all or not. Guys accept it, after the first few weeks the regular calls, the ‘Mera baby ne khana khaya?’ Whatsapps do get irritating. But your patience levels do start getting tested once the last seen of Whatsapp are questioned and when the ‘who were you talking to at this hour of the night?’ arguments come up.
For any girl, however strong willed and independent she might seem to be initially, once in a relationship you become the world. Her every thought and action starts revolving around you; and sweet as it may sound it does get on your nerves after some time.
Understanding your girlfriend isn’t difficult because the intentions are always for the good of the ‘relationship’ but in that process they do tend to forget that they have a life that is separate from you definitely have a life that includes your boy gang and your freedom, stuff that you can’t make her a part of.
Guys it’s time to take a call if this is your situation. Remember the monologue from ‘Pyar ka Punchnama?’ if you don’t want yourself becoming into a living version of that, then give a very serious thought to the relationship, if you are not serious about her then what’s the point of putting up with all the fuss? But if you are then patiently explain the situation to her, be the kind, loving and polite boyfriend you always were but ensure that you start explaining your freedom requirements clearly and calmly.
Surely, your girlfriend loves you and will understand your plight. But if all your efforts fail to show result, it’s time to Dump that Nagging Girlfriend of yours and Move onn!!
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